The Bright Side

I truly believe that being able to see on the bright side of things is really one of the best ways to live one's life. The ability for one to be able to judge quickly and criticize only reminds me of the human being's continued dissatisfaction at the many blessings Allah has bestowed on them. As though somehow they were guaranteed a life of ease and the companionship of perfect people. If we were to make a mistake, then how would we want those around us to respond to us? Nowadays, it is almost as though treating people the way you'd like to be treated is a way of the past. We assume the actions of others are done with ill intentions, as if we gained insight into their exact thoughts and motives. We judge the actions of others as though Allah is in need of assistance in his role. Even he doesn't  pass judgement until the person has left this earth, so then how is it fair that we pass judgement while everyone is still a work-in-progress? We mask assuming the worst of every possible situation by "preparing for the worst". But preparing for the worst only distances us in placing our full hope in Allah swt. How can you trust in him and believe in him to the best of your abilities if we always assume he has the most unfortunate plans laid out for us? Negativity only breeds negativity, and nothing more. Having faith in Allah swt means you believe wholeheartedly that he will always guide you to that which is best for you. If you expect Allah to forgive you for your shortcomings, then would it not make sense that you forgive others of their shortcomings, especially seeing as their shortcomings matter a lot less than those of yours to Allah swt. This life and the people in it were never meant to be perfect, so try and look past the imperfections you are faced with on a daily basis. Instead, look to those things in life which are going well, and the qualities in those people which are good. This way, all that lies ahead of you will look a whole lot brighter
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As always, a BIG reminder to myself before all others